For the girl who wants to find her people
Prioritize yourself without sacrificing connection and belonging.
In six weeks, learn how to build the friendships and relationships that make college feel like home — while staying true to yourself and what matters to you.
Only 10 spots. Waitlist members hear first when doors open.
Let me guess...
You know you want to say no...
but saying yes feels easier than disappointing someone.
You've asked five people what they think...
and somehow you're even more confused than when you started.
You're pissed at a friend...
but bringing it up feels way scarier than pretending everything's fine.
You find yourself going along with things you don't really want to do...
because you don't want to be the difficult one.
You know what you want...
until someone you care about wants something different.
You shouldn't have to choose between having your own back and having meaningful relationships.
Your six weeks together
Here's what we'll do, together.
We start by understanding where you lose yourself, build a clearer sense of what matters to you, then spend the rest of our time practicing it in real life.
Recognize where you're losing yourself
Notice the ways you put other people's wants, opinions, and comfort ahead of your own — and understand why.
Get clear on what matters to you
Figure out what you value, who you want to be, and what you want guiding your choices.
Choose yourself AND stay connected
Practice navigating the messy moments when what you want, what someone else wants, and your fears all collide.
Bring your real life
Bring the friendship drama, dating situations, decisions, doubts, and “WTF do I do?” moments you're actually dealing with.
Practice with support
Keep applying what you've learned with personalized coaching and support when things get messy.
Look back + look ahead
Celebrate how far you've come, get clear on who you want to be moving forward, and make a plan for continuing to have your own back.
What's included
- 6 live group sessions
- 60–90 minutes on Zoom each week for six weeks.
- 1 private 1:1 session
- Dedicated time with Rebecca to work through whatever you need most.
- Private community
- A private space to connect, ask questions, share wins, and get support between sessions.
- Recordings included
- Miss a session? Catch up afterward.
- Limited to 10 participants
- A small group on purpose — so there's space to actually know each other, speak up, and get coached.
- $399 founding cohort pricing
- This is the first-ever group, which means you'll get the lowest price I plan to offer this program in exchange for your honest feedback along the way.
Day + time will be chosen based on waitlist availability.
Scheduled during or after our six weeks together.
A little about your coach
Nice to meet you,
I'm Rebecca.
Ten years ago, I was exactly where you are now: in the middle of one of the biggest transitions of my life, convinced everyone else knew what they were doing. Spoiler alert: They didn't.
I thought love and friendship needed to be earned. I believed that if I kept people happy, stayed go-with-the-flow, said yes, and made myself needed, I'd never have to worry about being left out… or alone.
So I made decisions based on who I thought I needed to be instead of who I actually was. And let's just say… I made enough questionable decisions for the both of us.
I didn't know that I could prioritize myself without sacrificing connection and belonging.
Turns out, you CAN care deeply about other people, compromise, show up, give, love, and belong — without losing yourself in the process.
That's why I created this program. Over 6 weeks, you'll learn how to recognize the ways you abandon yourself, get clear on what actually matters to you, and practice making decisions that honor BOTH you and the relationships you care about.
Because belonging shouldn't require you to leave yourself behind.
I can't wait to see you there.
Questions
Good things to know.
Okay, I'm in. What's next?
Join the priority waitlist to get first dibs on one of 10 spots when the founding cohort opens.
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